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was fun while it lasted

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Mon Oct 12, 2009 1:16 am
by mightysonofa
Im gonna have to take a bow out of the clan , IM OUTA HERE Jack (notsomightysonofa)
Re: was fun while it lasted

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Mon Oct 12, 2009 2:01 am
by Oktoberfest
Hmm, I would've tried balancing online gaming and house chores. No point in spending all day long in front of the computer, but an hour a day seems reasonable.
Hope you can make it back!
Re: was fun while it lasted

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Mon Oct 12, 2009 2:28 am
by TKCJOSH
Your just being a good man bra hopefully she can find a lil time for you to play at least.
Re: was fun while it lasted

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Mon Oct 12, 2009 2:45 am
by tpresnall
Sorry to hear that ... sorry you couldn't work something out with her..... we all need some "down" time for our selves. Sounds like "when she's happy...you're happy".... at least in her eyes >>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>> sounds
LIKE MY FIRST WIFE!!! Good luck pleasing her... that's what love is all about..... Giving and giving

(wait, shouldn't it be Giving and Taking?). The Pajamas will miss ya

PJ's
Re: was fun while it lasted

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Mon Oct 12, 2009 4:09 am
by TKCJOSH
tpresnall wrote:Sorry to hear that ... sorry you couldn't work something out with her..... we all need some "down" time for our selves. Sounds like "when she's happy...you're happy".... at least in her eyes >>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>> sounds
LIKE MY FIRST WIFE!!! Good luck pleasing her... that's what love is all about..... Giving and giving

(wait, shouldn't it be Giving and Taking?). The Pajamas will miss ya

PJ's
lol sounds like my first wife epic
Re: was fun while it lasted

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Mon Oct 12, 2009 4:54 am
by monitor2x
That sucks man, sorry to hear that, i don't see why it could be a big deal, at least for me, like with my wife for example, she understands i like playing a lot (but i try to be moderated with time too), she understands about me being in TKC! yeah! Before we got married I told my wife that i was going to need some space and some of my own time when living together (which i think is normal in all relationships) we laughed about it.... and she understood because she thinks the same for her. I'll might be pissed if she tries to control my life and more if i knew i wasn't doing anything wrong, but of course without doing anything or spending "more" time than what is considered "ok". That's me. I hope everything is fine with your wife and you find something fun or not boring lol in the meantime. And hope to see you back too without the cause of any trouble.
Re: was fun while it lasted

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Mon Oct 12, 2009 5:02 am
by TKCJOSH
PSP MOBILE GAMING lol just encase ur really desperate
Re: was fun while it lasted

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Mon Oct 12, 2009 5:10 am
by mightysonofa
Oktoberfest wrote:Hmm, I would've tried balancing online gaming and house chores. No point in spending all day long in front of the computer, but an hour a day seems reasonable.
Hope you can make it back!
I work 8 to 10 hours a day and dont sit the whole day long i get stressed and it helps me to relax and have a bit of fun i have refinished this whole house by my self ,drywall wireing you name it i done it all took me 2 years aall the time working ,it's not that im not living up to my chores its a control thing i think!!
Re: was fun while it lasted

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Mon Oct 12, 2009 5:15 am
by mightysonofa
Oktoberfest wrote:Hmm, I would've tried balancing online gaming and house chores. No point in spending all day long in front of the computer, but an hour a day seems reasonable.
Hope you can make it back!
PEACE!
Re: was fun while it lasted

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Mon Oct 12, 2009 5:31 am
by sirce
Maybe in a few she will come around and you can play again with the group.
Mine did that for a while and then ....she gonna learn she says. She used to do like that too.
Good luck and hope see you soon.
Re: was fun while it lasted

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Mon Oct 12, 2009 5:43 am
by monitor2x
Try to have your face like this

all day long, hope that helps

JK
Re: was fun while it lasted

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Mon Oct 12, 2009 2:05 pm
by (TKC)TheCrimsonStar
monitor2x wrote:Try to have your face like this

all day long, hope that helps

JK
lol then she'll think he's trying to manipulate her. I've tried that with my mom....didn't go very well

Re: was fun while it lasted

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Mon Oct 12, 2009 2:38 pm
by sirce
That funny Monitor
Re: was fun while it lasted

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Mon Oct 12, 2009 3:05 pm
by (TKC)-o]T3[o
Sorry to hear that mighty.. especially since we need good cod4 clan members.

My wife just accepts that working on clan stuff and playing games is what I do. I should probably pitch in a little more than I do but I just get so involved with it that I spend almost all my free time on it. We have Friday nights and Saturday mornings/early afternoon together.
I think I'll leave you in clan for the time being, just to see if anything cools down.

Re: was fun while it lasted

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Mon Oct 12, 2009 4:49 pm
by tpresnall
Mighty... HERE IS THE SOLUTION TO YOUR SITUATION..... You have a HOBBY (and a Clan). You need some play time (with the Clan) while unwinding, and hanging out having fun. Let me ask you.... "Does your wife have a hobby or something she enjoys doing (with out you looking over her shoulder)???"
If NOT... she probably needs one or to find something she can do on her own for a few hours... or whenever. It's healthy for a couple to have a few DIFFERENT interests to spend THEIR down down time doing..... NOT healthy to be on each other's heels all the time. "ALL THE TIME" may eventually NOT become "QUALITY TIME!" This I knoweth.... thus sayeth the Pajamas
