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tpresnall wrote:Wow B-Man... that's a heavy thing for them to lay on you!! But... if you're asking....My advice is not to punish the fetus by aborting it. A BEATING heart starts after 2 days. LIFE is PRECIOUS... can you think of anything that is MORE precious ?...(me neither). A child will give them both continuous joy, and love for the rest of their life. This NEW HUMAN life... this new GIFT..., should not be distroyed out of CONVENIENCE. ASK THEM,..... what IF THEIR PARENTS had ABORTED THEM as children It's a LOT TO think about... but abortion shouldn't even enter their minds. SAVE THE BABY HUMANS. Giving it up for ADOPTION to a couple who would LOVE IT FOREVER ,and can't have a children would be a blessing of them. Please have them consider this FIRST Pajamas
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brownman350 wrote:I would say the same thing too, i don't like abortion but you know they are young and they want to be lawers they think a knew baby will blow up their career .
sotpresnall wrote:Wow B-Man... that's a heavy thing for them to lay on you!! But... if you're asking....My advice is not to punish the fetus by aborting it. A BEATING heart starts after 2 days. LIFE is PRECIOUS... can you think of anything that is MORE precious ?...(me neither). A child will give them both continuous joy, and love for the rest of their life. This NEW HUMAN life... this new GIFT..., should not be distroyed out of CONVENIENCE. ASK THEM,..... what IF THEIR PARENTS had ABORTED THEM as children It's a LOT TO think about... but abortion shouldn't even enter their minds. SAVE THE BABY HUMANS. Giving it up for ADOPTION to a couple who would LOVE IT FOREVER ,and can't have a children would be a blessing of them. Please have them consider this FIRST Pajamas
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tpresnall wrote:brownman350 wrote:I would say the same thing too, i don't like abortion but you know they are young and they want to be lawers they think a knew baby will blow up their career .
sotpresnall wrote:Wow B-Man... that's a heavy thing for them to lay on you!! But... if you're asking....My advice is not to punish the fetus by aborting it. A BEATING heart starts after 2 days. LIFE is PRECIOUS... can you think of anything that is MORE precious ?...(me neither). A child will give them both continuous joy, and love for the rest of their life. This NEW HUMAN life... this new GIFT..., should not be distroyed out of CONVENIENCE. ASK THEM,..... what IF THEIR PARENTS had ABORTED THEM as children It's a LOT TO think about... but abortion shouldn't even enter their minds. SAVE THE BABY HUMANS. Giving it up for ADOPTION to a couple who would LOVE IT FOREVER ,and can't have a children would be a blessing of them. Please have them consider this FIRST Pajamas
They think it would blow THEIR CAREER.... WHAT about the Child's CAREER?? Tell them NOT TO THINK of THEMSELVES ONLY!!!!!! Talk about SELFISH!!! PJ's
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kingloser wrote:ok im not usually political but heres what i think. b4 i begin this rant ill say that i am anti abortion but that will not change what im gonna say. I believe that u need to tell them that this is their decision and they shouldnt accept one iota of advice concerning this besides that little tidbit u just gave them. Everyone is indeed entitled to their opinion. Of course u could just say well what happened if ur parents aborted u. well obviously nothing becuase u wouldnt be here to be part of this conversation. accidents happen and im not ashamed to say thats why im here. i would be willing to bet alot of u are here for the same reasons. the whole planned parenthood and contraceptives argument is somewhat moot because the only for of 100% sure form of birth control is abstinence. however i know someone who went off her birth control in a semi attempt to have a baby, then went back on after deciding she wanted to go back to school and get her life in better order. despite both birth control and condoms she ended up pregnant a couple months later. so despite the closest to 100% birth control besides the abstinence it still happened. Now adoption is a great option and i would personally prefer that more people take that option over abortion but we have to remember that this is not our body its hers, so who are we to tell them how to treat it. Think of this as a worst case scenario. Say the decide to not abort but give it up for adoption or maybe even keep it. Then while giving birth she dies. So are you now the one who says which life is more important? I for one would not wanna tell someone that their life wasnt worth someone elses. Could u look your daughter/wife/sister/friend in the face and tell them that they should die so that a baby could live? Now im not saying thats gonna happen, thats why i said worst case scenario.
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kingloser wrote:ok im not usually political but heres what i think. b4 i begin this rant ill say that i am anti abortion but that will not change what im gonna say. I believe that u need to tell them that this is their decision and they shouldnt accept one iota of advice concerning this besides that little tidbit u just gave them. Everyone is indeed entitled to their opinion. Of course u could just say well what happened if ur parents aborted u. well obviously nothing becuase u wouldnt be here to be part of this conversation. accidents happen and im not ashamed to say thats why im here. i would be willing to bet alot of u are here for the same reasons. the whole planned parenthood and contraceptives argument is somewhat moot because the only for of 100% sure form of birth control is abstinence. however i know someone who went off her birth control in a semi attempt to have a baby, then went back on after deciding she wanted to go back to school and get her life in better order. despite both birth control and condoms she ended up pregnant a couple months later. so despite the closest to 100% birth control besides the abstinence it still happened. Now adoption is a great option and i would personally prefer that more people take that option over abortion but we have to remember that this is not our body its hers, so who are we to tell them how to treat it. Think of this as a worst case scenario. Say the decide to not abort but give it up for adoption or maybe even keep it. Then while giving birth she dies. So are you now the one who says which life is more important? I for one would not wanna tell someone that their life wasnt worth someone elses. Could u look your daughter/wife/sister/friend in the face and tell them that they should die so that a baby could live? Now im not saying thats gonna happen, thats why i said worst case scenario.
Gobbles wrote:Brownman, you should respect the couple who are interested in your opinion -- but you should not convince them one way or another of making a life-choice; its their lives. If they truly respected you -- and themselves -- they would understand your position to remain ambivalent.
Fallacious points aside, its a woman's right to chose -- and dont think they won't struggle with the choice they'll make. Again, whatever religious/political belief you have, refrain from that position and just support the couple in whatever option they make -- everything will work itself out.
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