What i have right now is 3 sticks in my mobo
The stock one is in the first slot (originally the stock sticks were in the first 2 slots, and the one in the 1st slot didn't work. So i took it out and moved the one from the second slot over to the 1st)
There are 2 sticks on the rightmost slots (3 and four) both new.
When i tried putting 1 new stick next to the old stick, it did not boot (but i think this had something to do with my int. graphics, because the pc light was on. I just had no display)
When i tried to put the 2 new sticks in the first 2 slots it did not boot. same thing as the ()'s above. BUT when i put in a graphics card it started up fine. But then it froze after about an hour or so, so i think there's something wrong with the way my mobo handles the pci slot
Thanks for all the comments so far guys

keep em' coming. I really need help :(